My idea of the perfect woman: Her hair .... I am pretty varied on my likes. I prefer brunettes, but also attracted to a few blondes and red heads. But for the most part, dark hair is my favorite. As for length, I prefer long hair unless it has been cut short and looks professional. I love to run my fingers thru a woman's hair. To give head massages and play with it. If her hair is long, I love having it draped all around us. With her head above mine. Her hair making a curtain, cutting off the outside world. Leaving only us to become lost in each other. Her Height .... As for her height.. it should be shorter than mine (about 5'10" or less). Now if she has long legs and a shorter upper body,..then she can be taller. Its important that our bodies fit together because, I like to cuddle! When we fall asleep together, I like spooning with her, our legs intertwined; my chest and chiseled abs pressed firmly against her back, surrounding her with my muscular arms. Keeping her safe and warm. Well, that's the feeling anyway. Her smell .... Unlike most men, who are limited by their "eyesight" to get aroused. I get turned on more by a woman's smell. Women who smell great are very sensual! I am a firm believer in personal hygiene! A woman who bathes, takes care of her hair and skin is open to all my affection! I like to bury my nose below her ear and intoxicate myself with her "scent"... moving gently downward along her neck breathing in her "pheromones". Pheromones are natural scents subconsciously detected and produce an "internal" sexual response in men. Certain name brand fragrances work very well to enhance these pheromones! "Cashmere Mist" By Donna Karan is one that drives me insain! Sorry ladies! The cheap dollar store perfumes just don't cut it! Woman who wear these types of fragrances on dates with me .... will not find their clothing "neatly" stacked in the morning! Her Clothes .... At one time, I thought that women dressed to impress men. Actually most women dress to impress other women. Women get jealous of other women. Usually about the ones more confident than themselves. I find confident women very sexy! So why do some women dress up for men? You know the type! They wear tight low cut tops with short miniskirts. Most of us dumb men "drool" over these women. However, unlike my compadres I think these women "lack" confidence and are insecure. I try to ignore these types. Unfortunatly, this only aggravates them! These scantily clad women end up approaching and teasing me with their "X-Rated" lingo! But I see right thru them. They crave attention and seek the approval of men to define who they are! It's pathetic and very demeaning to all women! Imagine this: there is one girl in a short red skirt and a low cut top. She spends the whole evening "pulling" her skirt down and "covering" her exposed cleavage! There is another woman in a suit at the bar, she sits sipping her drink, legs crossed; scanning the room, her chin is up and shoulders back. Which woman do you think I will go for? This just proves it does'nt matter what you wear, providing you wear it with "confidence". It's more to do with your "body language". That's how you project your personality without saying a word! Now, I do encourage all you women to wear "silk bras, thongs or G-string panties!" It’s very "stimulating" to discover these "sinful undergarments" after I tear your clothes off! Her figure .... I like my women to be curvy but not fat or obese! Now, you can be curvy at 90 to 130 pounds. It is a matter of proportions. As long as a woman has a firm body and is somewhat athletic. I will find her attractive and interesting. Now, if I were to say whether I was a "breast man or butt", it would have to be both. I love every sexy inch of a woman's body! A woman's neck...that I love to smell, kiss and run my tongue over. A woman's back...that I love to massage. A woman's lips...I love to barely touch with my own...bite on gently!.. kiss hard and then softly. Her breasts...I gently touch with my finger tips, kiss and caress. A woman's stomach...I love to run my hands across, rest my head on and then kiss and lick my way southward! A woman's butt...to hold, grasp firmly and squeeze in the heat of the moment!...to slide up against when its all wet and salty. Then we have the two most seductive works of art known as her "legs". I love to "firmly massage" both of them...starting with her toes... and pleasuring her slowly all the way up to her inner thighs!! As for ground zero? ... I don't even go there for at least half an hour! Most men target that spot "immediately" (woman hate this!). I hit all the "erogenous" zones of a female's body first! This always produces "more intense" multiple orgasims for the woman. I would get kicked off this site indefinately if I descibed the "toe curling" mind shattering pleasure that I unleash here! Her mind .... The real mystery and beauty of a woman lies within her heart, soul and mind. Where in the key to my true happiness resides. Creative women are very attractive! By this, I mean a woman that sees the world full of wonderful things. Who can see something and build on any idea. Make something from nothing and appreciate it for what it has become. Also adventurous, to partake in the world around her. To try everything without fear holding her back or to fall into society's "trap" that says all woman are weak and helpless! My perfect woman is confident and will stand her ground! She will have a knack of delivering brushoffs to unwanted, intrusive men! She is also excellent with profanities, emitting surprising and strategically "devastating insults" and comebacks to rude people who deserve them! Date Ideas ... Idea #1. Our evening would begin with an exciting adrenaline filled motorcycle ride to a cozy little restaurant. Next, we would hit up a local club for some live music, conversation and close dancing! Later, we would jet over to my house for some late night drinks and see where the chemistry might lead us! Idea #2.If the chemistry is right...every light at my place will be out. I 'll use a host of "candles" in tea cups to illuminate every room!. There is nothing more romantic than a woman in candle light! The warm glow dances all over her body and draws me in closer to her face. Her beautiful eyes distract me long enough to find her lips with my own and lightly press against them! Barely touching first.. just to excite us both! If I don't go insain, I'll close my eyes and kiss your lips harder and harder!! My hands will leave your body momentarily and slide up to your face where I'll "french kiss" you until your body is a flowing river! I'll stop and trace a path with my tongue all the way down to your chest! While this crime is being committed, my hands are going to travel to your back! Starting with your shoulder blades.. I'll massage them gently and run my finger tips "up and down" your spine..stopping to grasp your bottom firmly. Your inviting neck forces me to bury my nose below your left ear. Breathing you in I am intoxicated by your scent! Over come with excitement, I'll pull your body closer into mine! Then caress both your hips and thighs at once! At this point.. clothing will start to fall to the floor leaving a "trail" to the bedroom. I'll throw you on my bed and......(well,.you get the idea!). "Employed as a Personal Fitness Trainer in Dallas, Texas. Feel free to contact me if you don't smoke and weigh less than I do! Which is 150 lbs. Sorry, but I am only attracted to women who care about their health....if your fat... go find a fat guy!"

My Ideal Person My ideal woman loves to have "INCREDIBLE ORGASM'S!"

Did you know that a woman can have six different orgasm's?

Here they are:

(1) hard clitoral

When your clitoris is stimulated with a lot of pressure and speed from side to side or up and down with fingers or tongue or lips or toes or any other part. It is often called "frigging" and leads to very sharp, very intense, and often multiple orgasms. I once made my gf cum over 100 times in 1 hour this way - it can be very productive, and take as little as 30 seconds to reach the peak.

2) soft, building clitoral

One of the most popular kinds, it involves the slow, gradual stimulation of the clitoris, with wet or oily hands, or with someone's tongue or lips... think swirling, caressing, gentle... it can take anything from two minutes to thirty minutes but it usually takes between five and ten. This is a much more sustained orgasm, an overwhelming peak, a complete tensing of the body and a much more head-to-toe intensity.

(3) internal orgasm

Usually from being fucked, from your hole being stretched by fingers or a cock, especially if it is very hard, especially from behind, in doggy style. Very intense and wild orgasm. Can be great, can be multiple, the most common during sex... she will feel her pussy muscles spasming uncontrollably around my cock - impossible to miss.

(4) anal orgasm

The most unusual, but some girls have orgasms FROM THEIR ASS from being fucked in the ass. Woman I've fucked say it feels "really good" and can lead to white stuff leaking out. When it happens, she feels her ass wildly contracting and throbbing.

(5) non vaginal

Some girls can cum from a man's hand running down her spine, or from nipple licking, biting, pinching, or from toe sucking, or neck biting, or ear licking and kissing... these are rare and usually known as "aftershocks" which are felt right in the clitoris when things are done to a girl after a lot of orgasms.

(6) g-spot squirting

a really incredible orgasm, called a g-spot squirting orgasm... it's when the saturated sponge-like tissue behind her clitoris (the g-spot) gets stimulated and probed, as it spasms with orgasm, it releases (in bucketloads!) the clear fluid (cum) that sprays everywhere... it's totally natural. You will love it - it's the best orgasm a woman can have. If she has one of these orgasms, you'll KNOW it - a girl I fucked said it feels like the peak of a mountain, like all her pleasure intensified and she just explodes... both of you will know it!

HOW CAN YOU MAKE HER CUM "REALLY HARD!": MAKING HER SQUIRT?

There are many ways to use your fingers to make a girl go crazy, and some of the best are to be found by simple exploration - try different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass, and be innovative and inventive. Some of the best fingering comes in conjunction with oral... but there is one, shining act which transcends all sexuality, and gives a woman - any woman - the best orgasm of her LIFE. Here goes: Start by performing a little oral on her inner thighs, labia and clitty especially, to get her nice and wet. The rest of this (except for, perhaps, the very end) can be enhanced by continually sucking and licking the clitoris throughout the duration of the act - oral definitely increases the power and pleasure or the female ejaculating orgasm. Now, take the hand that you write with, and take the two fingers closest to your thumb (your pointer/index finger and your middle finger) and make them wet with your mouth, with hers, or with her pussy juice (she should be glistening wet for this to work properly). MAKE SURE YOUR NAILS ARE TRIMMED AND NOT SHARP. Slide those two fingers in, with the fingerprint part of the fingers facing up (nails down), slide them in firmly but slowly, as far as they will go without using too much pressure. If she is really tight you make need to start with one, and if there is a lot of wetness but resistance, you may need to tease and taste her pussy some more. Once you get those fingers in, tease her inner walls slowly with the pads of your fingers, and get her even more juicy. When you think that she is ready to have the orgasm of her life, you may begin: Now you will maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes, every woman has one. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy (like you're going up behind her clitty). Her g-spot is actually a patch of her inner walls which is on the FRONT INNER WALL of her pussy, above the hole itself. So, in, up, and back towards the entrance. You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin – rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. You've found it. Congratulations. By making a beckoning motion with your two fingers (a come hither, bending fingers motion), you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now. As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you're doing it right, and she's comfortable with it, you'll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy. As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, start doing it harder. The more she thrashes from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you're slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you're still pressing up against that g-spot even as you're slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon. Through all of this, she should be squelching, squirming and OBVIOUSLY loving it. If she's not, you should stop. If she says it hurts (especially if she says it more than once, you might want to stop or at LEAST slow down or not do it so hard. Make sure she's always wet – not dry for any period of time. Now here's the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It's just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but make sure she stays relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers) and that you KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that's when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner. 10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON'T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She'll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you're prepared. I guarantee you, if she's never had one before, the squirting orgasm will be the best orgasm of her life! In my experience, 97% of women are capable of having them, and in certain circumstances, I think it's more like 99.9%. If you want her to ejaculate in great volumes, have her drink lots of water before you do it, and stay well hydrated. Once she's finished squirting, SHE CAN SQUIRT AGAIN. Especially if you didn't do it too hard, and still got her to cum, you can usually start all over, and between one and ten minutes later, she'll be squirting again. Usually, you have to do it harder each time. My record is seven. The girl that squirted seven times in 45 minutes passed out for 6 hours afterwards (it's physically exhausting and dehydrating) so be careful if you try more than 2 at once. Most girls pass out after a couple of them. This can make a girl fall in love and at the very least want to fuck your brains out, so use it wisely rather than to your advantage. Don't take advantage of people using this. If you do it wrong, or if she's on her period, she might bleed. That's usually okay, but just make sure you don't hurt her, and you stop if she's screaming with pain, rather than pleasure. You should always have a safe word with your partner, and you should always make sure she knows what you intend to do and that she's fine with it. Enjoy this, and I hope it works out for you; I hope it works out for HER, even more so. If it does… well, just wait and see. I'm jealous of women because of g-spot orgasms! There's NO male equivalent – it's just absolute ecstasy, nothing less. Remember there are at least fifty ways to make a woman cum (actually lots more) and at least six different types of orgasms so don't limit yourselves to this whether it works or not.

ORAL SEX (CUNNILINGUS):

In order to make a girl go crazy using your mouth, this is what I recommend: Remember every girl is different, so you may wish to vary the style, speed, and force with which you perform oral upon her. These are just some general pointers that work for *most* women, not all. And remember, it's all about the WAY you do what you do. Be sexy about it. Be into it, be passionate, and above all, be receptive to her body language and what she asks you to do and responds to. Start by breathing over her pussy, and her thighs. Kiss her inner thighs softly at first, maybe lick on them and suck on them in different places. Run your tongue along them towards her pussy, but don't touch it. Kiss above her pussy (especially if she's shaved) and lick and tease the area above her clitoris. Make sure your mouth and tongue are really wet. When you've teased her to the point where she's squirming and moaning a little, or telling you to start licking the pussy itself, then it's time to move your head right between her legs, and position your lips and tongue directly over her clitoris (if she hasn't already pushed your head down there). At first lick the clitoris softly (make sure your mouth is wet) and slowly, not much force, just teasingly, delicately. Kiss it. Kiss it passionately, the way you kiss her mouth. Caress it with your lips and tongue. Don't forget to interject kissing and licking her inner thighs and licking her labia as a variation. Lick her hole, too. Slip your tongue into her hole. If she likes that, slide your tongue in and out of her hole, like it's a cock. Do that forcefully, but don't hurt her. Lick her ass, if you can get to it. For that, licking from behind is the best, when she's on all fours. Lick around her ass, around the rim, and then slide your tongue inside (if you dare!). Don't do it too hard, and make sure you don't force it in. Just teasingly, gently, letting her know you love her body and want to pleasure her in every way. One thing girls usually love is when you lick from the bottom of their asshole right up to the top of their clit in one long, luscious lick. You can do that a few times. If she reacts to a certain thing, repeat it. Now for the serious stuff: When she starts to enjoy it, begin a rhythm of licking her. Lick her whichever way she likes the best (ASK HER!) or whichever makes her moan the loudest. And REPEAT it. Over and over, in a rhythmic motion. Make your neck work, put your whole head movement into it. It should be a sweeping, repeating, constant motion, with your tongue and lips either caressing or encircling, swirling and stimulating her clit over and over until she starts to shudder. As she enjoys it more, you can get a little harder. Some girls like it very hard (lots of pressure), and very fast (super fast), but most girls like it softer and more delicately. Kiss it as if its delicate. Lick it as if its delicate, don't press your face in too hard once you're in the rhythmic motion. You should try and tease her clitty to orgasm, not force it to orgasm. Some girls, when they're coming, like a variation. When she starts coming, and starts to throb, DON'T STOP - but some girls like you to make it harder (or softer) at the point of orgasm), or to suck or nibble on it a little bit. Very few girls like you to just leave it alone. Most of them, though, like for you to JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING until they're done coming. Then, once they've collapsed and are exhausted, either carry on going, starting from scratch (to make them come again), or slide up and kiss them on the lips, letting them taste their love juices from your mouth. Then it's time to either receive oral, "fuck" like crazy, or curl up and go to sleep.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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