I love orally pleasing First things first. 1) I am recently widowed, and not looking for more than FWB at the moment. 2) I may flirt here to show my interest, but you will have to let me know if you are interested. As a Sigma male, I simply do not follow traditional dominance expectations / stereotypes. Make no mistakes though. I am very confident when I know that my attention is solicited. 3) I am looking for mutual fun with select individuals. I am very open minded, and I tend to go with whatever feels right at the time. I do not consider myself to be very sexually inhibited, although I'm not into humiliation or malicious domination (light bondage is probably ok but no pain please). About me: Physically, I am 5’ 11” with a reasonably fit 170 lb runner's build. I love to please others but I am not looking for a serious relationship (just mutual sexual gratification and some other enjoyable common experiences depending upon what we can agree.) I prefer smaller and more intimate interactions with stimulating conversation and a bottle of wine or a good beer, and then exploring more erotic adventures with a small select group or individual. I also speak a little French, Spanish, and Italian but wouldn't mind the opportunity to blow the dust off of any or all of them. (�Me gustan las nalgas grandes e muy redondas!) My interests: I am stimulated by good food, and intellectual conversation (but I also crack up at some low brow humour). I enjoy photography, motorcycles, running, hiking, road cycling, and other outdoor activities. I've been informed that I possess significant knowledge on a wide range of subjects (even some pretty obscure topics) but hey, “That's what I do: I drink and I know things”. Of all of my intellectual interests I can easily carry on discussions about music for hours. I studied classical singing for several years and I also play a little guitar and piano. I would definitely consider my musical tastes to be eclectic. Just a few of my favorites: Pink Floyd, the Eagles, Heart, The Weeknd, Muse, George Strait, Chopin...

My Ideal Person I'm not super picky, However,
1) Having an attractive face (highly subjective and veritably inexplicable I know), captivating eyes, beautiful smile, and infectious laugh are a definite plus.Showing pics with more than just your naughty bits (face and body) are more likely to get my attention. I also find curvier women (ample, BBW, etc) to be super attractive.
2) Intelligent, thoughtful, great sense of humour.
3) Willing to take time during each encounter (not just hit it and quit it.) In other words: "The slow orgasm penetrates the soul" - Me (not Frank Herbert)

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Chopin, Daft Punk, too many to count really

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
She is a hot curvy lady that gets turned on by my singing at
the karaoke bar so much that she begins to squirm in her seat.
When I finish the song her gaze meets mine for a just a second.
She looks away blushing while squeezing her legs together
and pushing down her black mini skirt in an attempt to hide
the wetness that has begun to soak through her panties.
Later after several hours talking and laughing, I find
myself at her place. After some pleasant conversation,
she leads me into her bedroom and begins to ask me what I would
like her to do for me. I gently place my index finger on her
lips and slowly push her back onto the bed. Our lips meet
and time seems to slow. i begin to rub and caress her body,
while slowly moving down to her hot folds. As I feel her intense
heat rising against my face I begin to pleasure her. As I look up to take a breath I spy a small vibrator on
her nightstand. I reach for it and alternate between using
it and my tongue on her engorged button, causing her to repeatedly
spasm in ecstasy while her creamy juices flow liberally
into my eagerly waiting mouth. After several orgasms she
pulls my head up, looks affectionately into my eyes, and
again asks what I would like. I ask if she would like to ride
me in the amazon position. At first she thinks this is a strange
request but I tell her to trust me. After she mounts me she
quickly realizes that this position allows her to enjoy
not only my significant girth, but my full 7" length. as
well. As she moves I match her thrusting and we merge over
and over, faster and faster. I feel her tightening around me and her
juices are flowing so much that they run down between my
thighs. As she climaxes and clinches around me, I feel a
sudden surge and intense release. After we catch our breath,
I notice the morning sunlight streaming through her flowing
curtains and we start to laugh uncontrollably at how the
wet spot covers most of her bed sheet.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage, Female orgasm

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each, Communication

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Queen Latifah, Melissa McCarthy, Jennifer Coolidge -
Yeah so I like bigger curvy women but they're super funny
and intelligent too (such a turn on for me)

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