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Lets Talk About Tantric Sex  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10138 posts
9/18/2021 4:40 pm
Lets Talk About Tantric Sex




The concept of tantric sex came from ancient Hinduism and ideas around tantra. Tantra stems loosely from religious texts that focus on spiritualism.

Tantric sex is a slow, meditative form of sex where the end goal is not orgasm but enjoying the sexual journey and sensations of the body. It aims to move sexual energy throughout the body for healing, transformation, and enlightenment.

Proponents of tantric sex believe that tantric techniques may help resolve sexual complications such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, or anorgasmia.

Tantric sex encourages people to get to know their own bodies and become in tune with them. By understanding the desire of one’s own body, one can incorporate this during sex with a partner. This may lead to greater sexual fulfillment and more intense orgasms.

How to Prepare
There are a few things a person or couple can do to help prepare for tantric sex. For example, they can:
~Read further into it: The more knowledge someone has on the topic of tantric sex, the more they are likely to feel prepared.
~Set aside time: Tantric sex is about moving slowly and being in the moment. In some cases, it can last an hour or more. Therefore, be sure to set aside some time to fully engage and enjoy the experience.
~Prepare the mind: Focusing on the moment can be difficult if a person is experiencing stress or has many things on their mind. Meditating or stretching before tantric sex may help achieve a clear mindset.
~Find a good place: Environment has a key role in tantric sex. Ideally, it will take place in a relaxing setting with a comfortable temperature. A person may want to dim the lights, light a scented candle, or put on relaxing music.

How to Begin
Begin by facing each other and gazing into each other’s eyes with your clothes on. Focus on one of your partner’s eyes; this keeps you intimately exposed. (Some people look back and forth between the two eyes to reduce the tension).

Make sure you’re breathing the right way (yes, there’s a wrong way). Next, synchronize your breathing with your partner’s: breathe in together, exhale together. Then move into breath exchange: You inhale when he exhales, then exhale when he inhales, as though you’re breathing each other in. Practice this for at least 10 minutes.

What does tantric sex for beginners look like?
To take this into sexual Tantra, try the same process but with clothes off. Sit on your partner’s lap, and wrap your legs around their waist. Do the breath exchange, but move into kissing and caressing. In time, begin slow intercourse, but continue caressing and kissing. Keep eye contact.

As you become more proficient, you can develop the ability for prolonged orgasm. For both women and men, you remain at the peak of ecstatic pleasure without climaxing. There are all the feelings of a typical orgasm, but it lasts for many minutes (or even hours), without a traditional orgasm.

Personal Experience
I can attest the orgasms are unlike any other. No drugs or alcohol of any kind were consumed prior to or during. This was also with someone who had been studying Tantra for years. Although I have never tried hallucinogens, it is the only thing I can liken it to. They were multi-layered, multi-coloured and multi-dimensional. At times, it felt like an out-of-body experience that I was witnessing from above. Afterwards, I slept for hours and woke up with an all-over glow and felt completely relaxed.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/18/2021 4:42 pm

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What's your experience with tantric sex? If you haven't tried it, would you?


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/18/2021 4:52 pm

Thanks for sharing this interesting information about Tantric sex can't say I have ever tried it before but I have read about it. It's great for people just starting out in a relationship or for couples who want to learn something to energize their relationship.

I hope your enjoying a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/18/2021 6:50 pm

It sounds like an incredible experience.
You're fortunate to have enjoyed THAT thrill and it certainly seems worthy, if you can find a willing partner.


n2cpls2005 64M
13 posts
9/18/2021 10:06 pm

My orgasms last for hours when I have Tantric sex.


G000dbuddy 36M
1676 posts
9/19/2021 12:52 am

inhale when he exhales, then exhale when he inhales, as though you’re breathing

goodbuddy781


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
9/19/2021 1:56 am

would love to partake in.....love the slow sensuous mindfullness approach to life. its my version of stopping to smell the candles. Time, practice patience and a comfortableness to explore bodies and a willing partner with the same goals is needed. Cept in this global pandemic, i wont be breathing in anyone elses air....lol
Hopefully at some point in the near future~~


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2021 10:02 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Thanks for sharing this interesting information about Tantric sex can't say I have ever tried it before but I have read about it. It's great for people just starting out in a relationship or for couples who want to learn something to energize their relationship.

    I hope your enjoying a great weekend..
I find the practice fascinating. I don't know if I recommend it for a 'new' couple because of the trust level that's required. Hope you get the opportunity to try it out in the future


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2021 10:03 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It sounds like an incredible experience.
    You're fortunate to have enjoyed THAT thrill and it certainly seems worthy, if you can find a willing partner.
It was an incredible experience. I think there are a lot of misconceptions about it and it's best to try it with someone who is educated and experienced with its practices.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2021 10:04 am

    Quoting  :

It can be very relaxing with a partner who is in sync with you and the practices of tantric.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2021 10:07 am

    Quoting G000dbuddy:
    inhale when he exhales, then exhale when he inhales, as though you’re breathing
It takes practice to get the breathing in sync.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2021 10:11 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    would love to partake in.....love the slow sensuous mindfullness approach to life. its my version of stopping to smell the candles. Time, practice patience and a comfortableness to explore bodies and a willing partner with the same goals is needed. Cept in this global pandemic, i wont be breathing in anyone elses air....lol
    Hopefully at some point in the near future~~
I feel it's not something to try with a 'random' person. A trusted partner would be the right approach. I understand the concern about sharing air, but if you both are double vaccinated and in a relationship, those concerns should be minimal. Hope you get the opportunity in the future


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2021 10:13 am

    Quoting  :

There are lots of great reading material and videos. Go for it!


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
9/20/2021 7:23 am

You give some good advice in this blog, thanks for sharing.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/20/2021 4:33 pm

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    You give some good advice in this blog, thanks for sharing.
My pleasure. Glad you enjoyed it


p1947q 77M  
140 posts
9/20/2021 5:25 pm

Added to my bucket list. Someday


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/21/2021 1:24 am

    Quoting p1947q:
    Added to my bucket list. Someday
It is an experience unlike any other. I hope you get the opportunity!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
9/21/2021 5:54 pm

Young lady, I have lived and loved a long life, and neve heard this name for this mind blowing experience... In a past blog 4 years back , I experienced this for my first time. " Tantric sex" thanks for putting a name on it.. See
Episode VIII, just renamed ,Hello again, just enjoying lifefor my best words without getting real personal!!!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/22/2021 12:06 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Young lady, I have lived and loved a long life, and neve heard this name for this mind blowing experience... In a past blog 4 years back , I experienced this for my first time. " Tantric sex" thanks for putting a name on it.. See
    Episode VIII, just renamed ,Hello again, just enjoying lifefor my best words without getting real personal!!!!
There are many elements to tantric and great videos and books available to learn more. Thank you for sharing the link to your story...sounds like a very special moment between you and your girlfriend


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